Attitude makes the difference: the victory of Axinescu Wedding Planner

It’s already a word, but it’s not for nothing and it’s no laughing matter, not even when we think of organizing a wedding. The beautiful weddings that we see and admire unanimously have, first of all, two protagonists who have taken on the roles of beautiful weddings, the «center of attention», the «heart of the party» (and other pretentious clichés that are taken too seriously) and who have behaved as such. There are people who, most likely, and in everyday life have the right attitude, energy and a lot of life. Happy couples, who are not afraid to show others how happy they are.

It is not so rare that I meet people who have an attitude, who are bold and who like to live fully… but who, because they are supposed to be a «gift», when they think about their wedding, they completely lose themselves. It’s stuck in prints. They know very well that something is really not welcome. As if it were After them would do it completely differently. But They have no way. OR It’s better not.

And I come home and I think it’s something strange. Because I don’t have to deal with boring people, on the contrary, there are interesting people, the ones you would like to be with. They only think about a wedding… like many others, even if they know full well that it will be the only one they will have (or at least they think so at the moment, because it is beautiful and healthy). They think of a wedding that imitates exactly what they have seen in the last two years, since they were invited to the wedding (more or less, it doesn’t matter).

We live in very interesting times. We have access to dozens and hundreds of ideas, images, tutorials, the information is at our fingertips, we are Zen And we live positively, we are alert and proactive. Or are we just on paper? I don’t know, I see it, but it seems to me that people are afraid of weddings, or don’t want to understand that the good weddings are the ones where they’ve been around for a while and thought that the simplest and best thing is to be the wedding like them. However it may be, cheerful and biting or meditative and romantic, it is better to have a wedding that resembles you, rather than being a wedding that says nothing about anyone. And the worst thing would be a wedding where the star is a photographer or a DJ, or a singer or even a wedding planner. Think you are not the main characters. Don’t want it play A beautiful role with personality.

I want to say it again, attitude matters. Even at your wedding. Even when you plan it. If we start hiding it from the beginning, just to do as others have done, to reconcile our neighbors, office colleagues and country relatives, you will have lost the battle with the monsters of wedding planning, who chant at every corner to sell your «off-the-shelf» weddings. But if in your heart, in your mind, you know that you want a fierce wedding, a cheerful wedding, a special wedding, however you want to feel it, find a moment of sincerity and tell me from the beginning that you will have a wedding with Ati-tu-di-non!

From my work perspective, successful marriages happen when we are happy and open. And it’s not enough for you to be like this, much less when it comes to your marriage. I, and I think every Wedding Planner in the Big World, want you to be involved and excited.

Just so, to see that I’m not beating the plain, I thought I’d exemplify 🙂 The photo below is of a beautiful wedding, as you can see from the album (which I invite you to see here). The groom is even a former colleague of my general, to whom I wish the utmost happiness!

Photo: Marian Cristea Photography