On the Law of Attraction – Victorita Axinescu Wedding Planner

I live in a pretty small universe. I would say that I live in my own universe, but that’s not the case. In fact I live in the world of brides and weddings. Many of our collaborators are friends, because it’s nice to make friends with people who share the same values, right? My day begins with a review of my client’s requests. I read each email with interest, I dedicate at least 10 minutes to each one. At the end of each email, I reset, to enter another state, to «adapt» to another challenge. It doesn’t sound complicated, I know. After all, what kind of job is this? Staying all day talking on the phone or answering emails, and then, every now and then, showing up at a wedding and asking for free menus, keeping your eyes on four after one and the other?

Well, folks, this is my job. It’s not complicated, I promise! Sometimes I get stressed, sometimes I have heartfelt emotions, but in a way it’s simple. This is how I do something you like (I say that I continue on the line of truth that I started). It’s easy for me. I have heard of others who complain (apparently, they cannot be in continuous joy), who have cursed their work, or who are just waiting for a day or two off. I’m writing this little article on leave, because I can’t stay too far away from my work.

And I started the morning by reading the next sentence, as a description of a wedding organization company, from abroad: «Each one is unique and we cater to all types» that is, all brides are different and we can satisfy all tastes. I haven’t read anything more wrong in a long time. The idea that we can deal with every type of man, couple and, finally, even the bride, i.e. with exactly the same pleasure, with the same dedication and the same creative tools, seems stupid to me. I admit that I cannot and do not propose it. I deal a lot with some couples, some brides, some people, in their happiness (and emotional, stressed, frustrating). Because I have neither the training, nor the army of necessary people, nor the desire to do more.

And now we come to the title of the article: about the law of attraction. I think that’s why it’s simpler than complicated for me. It’s more of a corvoada adventure. More play than work. Because I don’t think about organizing weddings for everyone. And the selection occurs, in a certain sense, completely naturally, through the “law of attraction”. So I understand why I don’t get bored with the endless emails from people who put their marriage in my hands. Because we all attract people around us who represent us, who look like us or complement us. It is said that in relationships it is the same thing, the partner tends to become what you offer him, what you let him give, he is the mirror of your own qualities and defects.

It’s hard for me not to believe it, especially because I have the nicest and most beautiful clients 😉 so, my dears, those who have already said «yes», if you are wondering why we work together – even if I am convinced that this is your last concern – the answer is clear: the law of attraction. You are wonderful, I am (many times) wonderful in turn 🙂

Photo credit: Mihai Solovastru Photography

And in my future, in love, I announce that I have reserves not bored by «wonders» to share!

Ready with honors, now let’s get to work! Let’s read soon!