Dream big, plan small – Victorita Axinescu Wedding Planner

In some ways (or in dozens and hundreds of ways), marriage is a dream. It is an expected event, which we think about several times in life until it occurs in reality. It is «that event», about which many of us have (or have had) real fantasies, more romantic, some vain, others simply out of the ordinary.

We dream about the wedding, we think of it as something unique, then we start reading how we make this great event happen, we see that others say that the wedding is «unique», it is «dreamlike», it is «perfect», etc. And then we get a shower with cold water, because the «nightmare» of planning, lists, budget, «what you have to do» and «5 things to avoid so as not to have the most disastrous wedding» begins, but above all «buy x thing or service, otherwise you will have an unfashionable wedding». And so we give up everything we dreamed of and start planning a wedding in the real world. And we believe, in a certain sense, that we are doing good, even if it shouldn’t be that way…

Dream big!

If you could have your wedding exactly how you wanted it, how would you imagine it? Close your eyes. And dream. What do you see? What do you feel? Dream of everything that is most beautiful. Nobody stops you. Nobody can stop you from thinking about your wedding in a «selfish» way, especially if only a few days ago you received the ring on your finger and said «yes». Don’t throw yourself straight into reality, because here you have little room to dream. Try to see what you like first. And write it down somewhere. Write down exactly what you think a wedding should be. Before you find out anything about how to «plan» weddings.

Why? Because it is essential to first visit your head and find out what you want, to align yourself with the important things that give you well-being. Marriage can be however you want it to beand to get there you must first let yourself dream a little.

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Plan small

Your wedding plans shouldn’t include everything. Marriage is not the creation of the world, in 24 hours. Your plans must include things you enjoy. Which make your heart beat and which you smile at reflexively, when you imagine what it would be like. Plan for the things that matter and make you happy. And ignore the rest of the things or leave them on a back burner. Because there is nothing more stressful than organizing a wedding where you want to do everything or thank everyone; Even with my help it would be tiring, for sure.

When I say I like simple weddings, I mean weddings that are centered around real joys. Let your wedding be yours, as you dreamed. Don’t try to drown her out with another wedding inventory that you found in a magazine or on the Internet. Because that inventory of items and services is not yours, you didn’t think of it and most likely it won’t suit you.

He doesn’t put a price on things that don’t matter. Not even a second. And don’t look for the «perfect things», but the ones you want. Because it is very easy to get lost, to create obsessions: the obsession with perfect shoes, perfect invitations or testimonials, the obsession with perfect table girls and perfect nothingness. And there are many, many perfect things; Easy to find, hard to choose, but in the end there’s just nothing.

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